A
good hug makes you smile, but a great
hug stays with you, like the warmth of a long hot shower. Not everyone is
capable of giving a great hug, and
not everyone is lucky enough to receive one. There are those who insist they're
not huggers, there are those who give the awkward sideways hug, those who can't
seem to get the arms right and choke the other person, and then there are those
who give close tight hugs.
The
most powerful hugs it seems are hugs of comfort. Whether it's between a parent
and child, between a couple or maybe just between best friends, in these hugs
time slows. The arms of the one providing the comfort act almost like a shield
and, for just that moment in time, optimism takes hold, inner strength builds
and the stress of the situation just melts away.
Hugs
of comfort are extremely powerful but hugs of adoration are equal in their
ability to convey a hundred words without speaking. Hugs of adoration usually
exceed hugs of comfort in their tightness and duration, and almost always
eliminate the space between the two parties. Chest to chest, you can almost
feel the other person's heart beating. You can feel their warmth, smell their
hair, and simply bask in the radiance of their presence. While these hugs aren't catalysts of optimism
and strength like comfort hugs, adoration hugs often represent powerful
opportunities and turning points. Face to face, you can look at someone the
eye, say goodbye or give in to the passion of the moment.
Great
hugs like these are more rare than one might think. When they do come along,
embrace it – literally. Savor the hug for as long as it lasts. It'll be over
before you know it and all you're left with is the memory, the warmth and
hopefully a smile. That is the power of a hug.
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