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Finally home after what seems like the worst date I've ever
been on, I feel compelled to share what I consider the faux pas of dating. I'd
assumed this was common knowledge, but after tonight I know it's safe to assume
nothing when it comes to dating.
1.
Do not show up in a wife-beater T-shirt and
jeans, or any other outfit that looks overly casual. Your date doesn't expect
you to wear a coat and tie or a ball-gown, but the first time you see your date
in person, it helps for that first impression if you are well-dressed.
Automatic strikeouts – blue jeans and a blue T-shirt (don't you like any other color?), socks with sandals, those "barefoot" shoes with toes, excessive cleavage (meaning acres of chest and yards of legs – pick ONE to show off and save the rest for later)
Automatic strikeouts – blue jeans and a blue T-shirt (don't you like any other color?), socks with sandals, those "barefoot" shoes with toes, excessive cleavage (meaning acres of chest and yards of legs – pick ONE to show off and save the rest for later)
2.
Do not call your date "dude" or use
the word "like" twice in every other sentence. Your date doesn't
expect you to speak like a college professor, and to flaunt a massive
vocabulary on the first date can be intimidating and off-putting. Still, excessive use of "dude" and "like" gets old
real fast, even in Southern California.
3.
If your date is a big sports fan, and you go
somewhere together to watch the game, watch the game with them. When you try to
interview them during the game, you will get incomplete answers and building
resentment. Talking is what the commercials are for. No one is suggesting you
have to sit in complete silence while the game is going on, but if your date is
a huge sports fan and he/she is watching a playoff game, it is NOT a good time
to ask them about their career goals and their family life. Choose your
moments, or you'll strike out looking.